Has sexy become synonymous with beauty?
Everywhere I see pictures of fashion and beauty all I see is a sexy woman of some sort. Everywhere I see well dress woman, most of the times I see a sexy person.
When I searched the definition of sexy I found that it means to arouse or tend to arouse sexual desire or interest.
But when I search for beauty I find that it means that is the quality that gives pleasure to the mind or senses and is associated with such properties as harmony of form or color, excellence of artistry, truthfulness, and originality.
As you can see, this words mean something completely different so why is it that for humanity (unconsciously) it has become the same thing?
Considering that man is a visual animal, why would you want to arouse or tend to arouse a sexual desire or interest in a person you don’t know?
By copying the current sexy fashion and wearing it in public, that is exactly what we are doing.
Please don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that we should suddenly wear nun clothing. All I am saying is that some people wear such clothes without a notion of what is going on.
For example, what if you are walking down the street wearing such clothes and you happen to walk in front of a sexual offender.
When parents tell their daughters not to wear certain pieces of clothing, we are not trying to be jerks. We are just visualizing these scenarios and in a certain way we are trying to protect or kids.
When you husband gets upset because you are wearing something that he considers inappropriate. He is not trying to be difficult; he is just visualizing these scenarios. Especially if you are going somewhere without your husband and he sees you wearing something he considers unsuitable. In his mind he is thinking about what would be the reasons why you want to arouse a sexual desire in someone other than him.
If you are single you could attract someone been beautiful as good as been sexy. Analyzing this, been beautiful will attract a person because of the beautiful qualities that such person sees in you. Been sexy will attract a person because you are arousing sexual desire. I am not claiming that one or the other is good or bad, but just trying to clarify the difference between the two.
Personally when I see a beautiful person, it brings beautiful feelings in me. In contrast, when I see a sexy person or as some may call HOT woman it brings a strong sexual desire. The more that I talk to male friends, the more I am convince that this is absolutely true. The problem that I have found is that out of all women I have encounter I have not yet discover one that knows the difference between been sexy and been beautiful.
Another problem that I found is that some men are victims when they see a sexy dressed woman. Let me explain. A man might be in a healthy relationship with his love one and when he goes to his office, sees his secretary wearing sexy clothes. Being a man he will naturally have a sexual desire for his secretary which will cause one of two things. If this man values his relationship with his love one that he would have to work harder in mentally represses this sexual feeling. The problem is that not all man are equally strong in this matter and that is the reason why you find some man that eventually cheat on their love ones.
So I guess my advice to you is to please be polite to the visual animal and try not to put him either on the spot or force him to make a decision that might ruin either him or his relationship with his love one.