Been Beautiful vs. Sexy…

Is it possible that our definition of female beauty has become distorted?
Has sexy become synonymous with beauty?

Everywhere I see pictures of fashion and beauty all I see is a sexy woman of some sort. Everywhere I see well dress woman, most of the times I see a sexy person.

When I searched the definition of sexy I found that it means to arouse or tend to arouse sexual desire or interest.
But when I search for beauty I find that it means that is the quality that gives pleasure to the mind or senses and is associated with such properties as harmony of form or color, excellence of artistry, truthfulness, and originality.

As you can see, this words mean something completely different so why is it that for humanity (unconsciously) it has become the same thing?
Considering that man is a visual animal, why would you want to arouse or tend to arouse a sexual desire or interest in a person you don’t know?
By copying the current sexy fashion and wearing it in public, that is exactly what we are doing.
Please don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that we should suddenly wear nun clothing. All I am saying is that some people wear such clothes without a notion of what is going on.
For example, what if you are walking down the street wearing such clothes and you happen to walk in front of a sexual offender.

When parents tell their daughters not to wear certain pieces of clothing, we are not trying to be jerks. We are just visualizing these scenarios and in a certain way we are trying to protect or kids.
When you husband gets upset because you are wearing something that he considers inappropriate. He is not trying to be difficult; he is just visualizing these scenarios. Especially if you are going somewhere without your husband and he sees you wearing something he considers unsuitable. In his mind he is thinking about what would be the reasons why you want to arouse a sexual desire in someone other than him.

If you are single you could attract someone been beautiful as good as been sexy. Analyzing this, been beautiful will attract a person because of the beautiful qualities that such person sees in you. Been sexy will attract a person because you are arousing sexual desire. I am not claiming that one or the other is good or bad, but just trying to clarify the difference between the two.
Personally when I see a beautiful person, it brings beautiful feelings in me. In contrast, when I see a sexy person or as some may call HOT woman it brings a strong sexual desire. The more that I talk to male friends, the more I am convince that this is absolutely true. The problem that I have found is that out of all women I have encounter I have not yet discover one that knows the difference between been sexy and been beautiful.

Another problem that I found is that some men are victims when they see a sexy dressed woman. Let me explain. A man might be in a healthy relationship with his love one and when he goes to his office, sees his secretary wearing sexy clothes. Being a man he will naturally have a sexual desire for his secretary which will cause one of two things. If this man values his relationship with his love one that he would have to work harder in mentally represses this sexual feeling. The problem is that not all man are equally strong in this matter and that is the reason why you find some man that eventually cheat on their love ones.

So I guess my advice to you is to please be polite to the visual animal and try not to put him either on the spot or force him to make a decision that might ruin either him or his relationship with his love one.

Sex Scandals Everywhere...

It's kind of funny but anyone can see how sex sells and how everyone tries to hide it. You find sex stories everywhere. One could find such stories in the newspapers, TV, General news among a lot more sources. This is a basic human function.

Why are we denying it?

Why do we not accuse those who adulterated but indict those who are willing to profit from the business? (Which I have to add is a very old line of job.)

I had a conversation with a friend of mine about the subject of cheating. She told me that one of her past boyfriends cheated on her. I then ask if she was ever intimated with him on her relationship and she told me that she barely was.

I have to say that I go on record by saying that I hate cheaters and liars. These kinds of people are liars in their own way. But I do understand why most of them cheat. (And I am talking about those men that do not use their upper brain.)

For a man, intimacy is almost necessary and women do not and I guess will never understand this concept. They might joke about it with girlfriends but they don't seem to understand the concept. And those women who understand this concept are either benefiting from this or are on top of the word getting whatever they please.

You might call them opportunist, those who typically end up marring an old man and getting their wealth. Common sluts might be another name you can typically use. But they are all smart in a way for figuring out this little secret.

Why is it that some women wonder why they can not keep a man? They might say that men are all cheaters. And then they can stand up and say that sex is not everything, and that they barely had any intimacy in the latter part of their relationships.

I am not saying that sex is everything but if it wasn't a big part of everything then why is it a multi-million dollar industry?

Why is it that most major technology has seen sex in some way?

Why is it that a nonentity becomes a superstar when sex is involved?

You want examples? I can summarize all in one name: Monica.

I think we are all living in denial. I think that we should make a law where adulterers can be criminally charge and prostitution can be a legal occupation.

I am not saying that we shouldn't be careful. All of this could be targeted in a way that our youth is not jeopardized.

I guess what I am trying to say is that we should stop living in denial and start been honest for once.

We should all be living life as it is and not as some of us think it should be.

Stressing Time for Floridians. Is Hurricane Ivan Coming?

Didn’t we just have a two hurricane already?
Now Ivan is on his way here, or at least appears to. This is causing tremendous mental stress to all southern Floridians.
I have this Blog to help me discuss my feelings about this hurricane season but some people have nothing. People don’t realize it but you need to talk about all hurricane related stress. If you don’t then you could easily go insane. Find a friend, neighbor or just anyone to talk about your hurricane frustrations.
Last time I check the National Hurricane Center, Ivan was getting ready to hit Jamaica. Then it would have to go though Cuba before it hits us, if it does hit us.
Is this a false sense of security?
Charley sort off followed the same path as Ivan. But Ivan appears to be stronger than the others. One thing is for sure, you can never be too careful. Even if this hurricane does not hit us, it will be a good Idea to prepare for it. I am getting ready for it myself. I’m buying can foods and placing the hurricane shutters on all my windows.
Let’s all just hope for the best.

My Celica...

I am a Toyota Celica loves. Here is a picture of the Celica that I own.

I don't currently drive it but I do want to fix it up. This one is a 1990 Toyota Celica ST.

Only the second design change made to the whole line since the 80's.

My Favorite Motocycle

This is my favorite bike. A Kawasaki Ninja 250.
I am thinking on buying one real soon. Some people have told me that this is a sissy bike. But you know what? I really don't care. It sound wierd but I don't like fast motocycles. I like scooters, so they way I look at it is that my Ninja will be a glorify Scooter.

I was surprice though to find that the Ninja 250 has a big web following. So I guess I'm not alone after all.

Do you think is a bad Idea?

Topic change for my Blog? Maybe.

I can not believe that it has been so long that I have not written on this blog pages. I apologize to my faithful readers that my brain had absolutely no activity in this lapse of time.

Nah, don't you all worry. I was not in a coma or anything like that. I think that my lifestyle has actually done this. Three jobs and a house full of kids and when I sit down to write then we get two hurricanes. Yes, two not one. And possibly one more (Ivan).

I will like to take this opportunity to say a very special good bye to Charley and Frances. So long and never comeback!

And to Ivan, Don't you dare even come close. Keep away!

Now that I got that out of the way, let me tell you about my writing intention for this Blog. My intention in writing my blog was to express my bottle-up feeling in a written form. Just like a therapeutic journal. I have since then re-thought and now I wish to stray just a little the intention to write in this Blog. Now I wish to express my deepest feelings in a general form.

What do you mean? You ask.

Well, what I mean is to express all my opinions, as far fetch as they might be, in a written form. You will find some of the most controversial subjects explicated in my particular point of view. Views like sex, violence, ethics and more. All of these described and explained as they exist inside my head. Hold on because it's not a pretty site inside here.

If you like, add your commends as to which topics you will like me to discuss next.

Thanks.